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Suzi Smith's avatar

How awful all of this is. These scams are run, not just to make money, and bleed money, but in order for the judge to abdicate his own decision-making. They just don’t want the responsibility, or any liability, or reputation impact for making these powerful decisions about these young lives. I’m 67 now, but as a child, I remember growing up reading about corruption all over the globe and thinking how lucky we were in America.. In many ways we are, and I love this country. But we are as corrupt as a Third World country in nearly every area. It’s disgusting. My very best to you.

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Nicole Crawford's avatar

It’s hard to say looking back what scam was the most harmful. The humiliating vocational exam ordered by the husband who never let me earn an income except for what he gave me after leaving my career to get married, or the muppet like forensic accountant, Dennis down in Laguna Niguel who only computed what’s given to him by the one who claimed he was broke, or the sealed documents- the conviction of Domestic Violence, Financial Abuse, and substantiated child abuse, that we were unable to get to the custody evaluator that wouldn’t have been necessary had those documents not been under some seal. My child was in danger and no one listened. His father broke his eleven year old nose, and the PD said there’s a burden of proof for an eleven year old, and I needed to be careful not to look like a hysterical mother during a custody battle - as my son screamed for me to get him while his father left him alone to go to Crowbar. Or the $1M he took out in my name against my house forging my signature, and transferring my 401k to his family law attorney’s husband the day after being served, or changing the judgement to a short term marriage after thirteen years of marriage and no one catching it. This is the tip of the iceberg- fraud and deception are applauded in the OC; they admire the depraved. I’ve watched it, and that’s why most women stay- they know the outcome for all. I apologize for the drawn out comment, but it’s all a scam and the children- the perfect innocent babies witness their mother’s lose their peace and laughter- not only their homes, cars, dignity, and private schools.

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