We are requesting the inspector generals office investigate the health and human services funding. These cases deserve to be investigated. Including the criminal justice system.
Change will not be handed to us, it will not come wrapped in a pretty bow, it will not come in a box, it will not come with a fox. Change is something we will demand, we will create, and we will not stop until we are satisfied. My experience with family court in Fairfax County, VA, was a shock to my system. Imagine your worst nightmare, your strongest anxiety attack, and your lowest low, all chopped up and then put into a rusty blender with a dash of humiliation, anger, and hopelessness.
Then imagine the devil himself in a black robe injecting your veins with this toxic cocktail. And if you flinch, you risk losing your kids. That is just the beginning of the nightmare that safe mothers and fathers are facing each and everyday. We go through this life with a forced smile because if we don't smile, we will cry. It might be your coworker, it might be your mailman, my point is, there are so many of us. Nobody was taking us seriously, nobody listened, nobody cared until now. I have been fighting an uphill battle since January 4th, 2024, and I am still fighting today. The support and encouragement of this 3-minute movement is the push I need, it is the antidote that I need after being stuck by the family court needle. My video will be uploaded within 48 hours. Thank you so much Family Court Fraud Warrior Project. I will not stop until Fairfax County VA family court is investigated.
My case is out of Kane County as well. I have proof of child trafficking. I also have proof of a dupage county scandal that was covered up. Rich.. please get ahold of me.
Hello Violet. Welcome welcome. It's amazing how quickly this erupted from one viral-ish article and video I did. You are a wonderful writer. Horrible topic but... hey this is what we are doing here. Dealing with it. What's SO nice is people coming into this group with such spunk 😄. On a POSITIVE footing. Even if still in a sea of shit. I'm going to annoy you with homework 🤨. We have a lot of layers to a lot of deep thinking in this thing. The proverbial 10,000. I want you to have confidence that we are doing things right and I think you can see this place runs on passion. Looking forward to seeing your video. Dave
This man is totally correct. In his analogy on the subject matter. Family Court is a complete failure. I’m sure there’s a good judge or two but 85% of them don’t have their shit together. The misconduct, the malfeasance, and the improprieties are all present. The abuse of power. They forgot what statement of fact means, and that means evidence. That substantiate allegations, accusations,. Paul strophy Lewis county Superior Court, Washington state is one of those judges that is committed crimes against justice. He lives in Olympia Washington from what I understand. He should be ashamed of himself, and he should be incarcerated. The lies in the perjury that I’ve gone on, and that court room that he is presided in. Has been nothing but misconduct fraud.
Except Heather Bendl is lying to everyone and $42k in arrears for child support. Claims Ex “raped” her resulting in child #4. Charges filed 4 years later. Really??? Will claim *I* stalk her. No, I tell people the parts she leaves out. Claims abuse on boyfriends when things don’t go her way and tried to have them prosecuted for abuses she commits on herself. Narcissistic, files false tax returns, commits identity theft, a grifter in every sense of the word. Heather’s story is half truths. And yes you can view all records of reported abuse, all 27 of them over the years on IL records and none have ever been prosecuted. Funny how that works.
Her children were taken for neglect and abuse. Left alone while she was out partying and drinking. In addition to being mentally ill.
Wants her kids back so bad she won’t pay to complete requirements of court in IL and FL. Can pay for supervised visits but won’t. She has options. Has money for camera equipment and a new van and this and that but not for the kids she claims to love and will do anything for. Apparently not.
Wow this is some ugly stuff. Certainly not what I created the project for.. except for the transparency part. Now, the truth has to be known here. If there are 27 reports never prosecuted, please provide substantiation. These are series allegations, as someone who has been stalked himself, I do hope this is not another criminal violation against our victims coming forward.
I am working with national legal litigant Tanwah Downing and Jessica Saxton to raise awareness for this national crisis. This is my personal story. Since sharing my story, Ive met more moms with similar stories here in NY. I am trying to get the media involved. We are headed to NYC and D.C., June 6-8. Please let me know how you can be of assistance.
Here is my story.
People need the truth.
BTW: this story has been published worldwide.
That is the only justice I want.
It all started after I left my ex in NY in Broome County and moved back to my hometown in Bradford County Pennsylvania. I reported a childline report for molestation of my daughter and another child. It was never investigated. Instead, the worker targeted me and my children. 6 babies that had never left my side. 6 babies I homeschooled and tried to protect from an abuser who has ties to court systems and a community of police officers, CPS, and DSS, judges, lawyers, and he even went so far to get himself a dv advocate.
Needless to say, a false report was made I shot my son with a bb gun which he later recanted. He was threatened by CYS in Bradford County that he was going to be placed in a pysch ward at 10 years old because he was having "behavior issues."
My kids were placed in kinship with my mom's ex who molested me my entire life. His gf knows what he did. They conspired with my ex. He was given two of my babies who he has completely alienated me from. It's been a year. These babies never left my side. They went to work with me because he wouldn't take a part in helping me. Hes remarried in under a year, and she controls the scenario. She stalks me on tiktok. She uses my advocacy to tell the court I am unstable. She has her friends and family bully me and stalk me.
Fast forward, I moved to Minnesota after Pennsylvania took my kids in hopes to get them back and away from these monsters. I ended up meeting another monster who raped me in my sleep then proceeded to tell TikTok what he did but pose it in a way to make me look like an abuser for defending myself. Needless to say, I ended up pregnant. He threw me out in the middle of winter after paying his back rent, plus the regular rent. He stole all my money, my bank card, and took me to a place knowing a dangerous dog lived there. I was mauled. I lost my job and my car. He made me homeless after promising to help me. His ex who he raped at gunpoint helped me to see who he truly is. She saved my life.
Fast forward : I came back to NY for custody with my ex abuser. I had no support system. They were left in Minnesota.
I had a baby Sept 26, 2024 at Lourdes Guthrie in Johnson City, NY where my current bf stood beside me.
Current case:
A judge, CPS in two counties, and a hospital I reported conspired with my abusive ex to steal my baby. He then used that knowledge to lie to Bradford County court and took my children away. Its been a year without my babies. That same judge who took my rights gave me Abel back. I have court coming up because I refiled with the head judge for my babies back. He never disclosed to the court he has a record, but involved himself in a case that he should not have access to because he isn't the father.
This current case in NY: Tioga County
I wasn't allowed to defend myself. I have proof of corruption, and they are trying to silence me. Now that I refuse to be silenced, they made up more lies. The judge is a part of this, and he ordered my baby into fostercare for 6 more months off a temporary order filed in Oct after I reported a doctor for sexual assault. They falsified my records and the officer I made the report to refused to investigate and lied on the report. Several nurses and doctors are testifying against me. The warrant was not signed and the order was an emergency order for gross behavior or neglect neither of which was true regarding this case. Trial has been set for July 17th. A permanency report full of lies was read yesterday. I provided a 2 page Rebuttal and over 1200 sheets of evidence which was denied. A lawyer for CPS opened my evidence. She saw all the conduct and abuse I reported. Two days before the hearing she denied to except over 28 exhibits. The court waited until that same day to tell me to stop sending discovery that they dont accept discovery for a trial. After a month of sending discovery.
At court yesterday, her first words were, "I do not consent to being recorded."
Now why would you open a permanency hearing with those words if your claim is that you don't feel safe opening evidence via digital files the same way discovery was sent to me? The same evidence that shows recordings of abuse and misconduct and refutes your client's claims. The judge refused my evidence. He set another hearing for six more months. My baby was taken at 5 days old after I reported a doctor. Discovery shows the county I resided in forced the hospital to detain him after being medically cleared.
The staff decided to go against their own advice because Broome County threatened them. They found old records that were later unfounded and used them to say I neglected him. They wrote lies throughout my records, told CPS I barricaded myself, my baby, and my bf in the room after calling 911. I was called all sorts of defamatory labels. Then Broome decided they didn't want the responsibilities so they turned jurisdiction over to Tioga where I did not reside. A county my abuser has ties to. An abuser they were made aware of. They then tried to give my baby to him found in the Permanency hearing report. He isn't the father.
Then my ACP dv address was exposed and then a retaliatory report was made to the county I actually reside. They've cleared me of any of these fallacies. This judge has been reported. These agencies have been reported. I've spoken up, and now my life is in shambles. They are illegally kidnapping my son. It's on paper what they're doing. I have enough evidence. I have been fighting alone for 8 months. They use my advocacy, my dv status, and my report of a doctor to say I am mentally ill and unstable. I have proof of any said mental illnesses not being the case. Still I am losing my baby to evil. I was threatened by the judge for filing motions. It's been brought to his attention that the county, and the court lacks jurisdiction. They still continue on like they're just doing their job. They change court procedures or refuse to tell me their procedures. So I follow the law and I am denied access. If someone doesn't intervene, my baby is gone forever.
Please share!!! It's the only way these evil people are going to be exposed.
Hi yes I've spoken to Tawana a few times. Smart guy. I'm glad he's banging down doors and getting needed exposure. We SHOULD do both our projects. No overlap really.
Family court must be abolished. You cannot reform corruption, it’s too embedded in the system.
We are requesting the inspector generals office investigate the health and human services funding. These cases deserve to be investigated. Including the criminal justice system.
Change will not be handed to us, it will not come wrapped in a pretty bow, it will not come in a box, it will not come with a fox. Change is something we will demand, we will create, and we will not stop until we are satisfied. My experience with family court in Fairfax County, VA, was a shock to my system. Imagine your worst nightmare, your strongest anxiety attack, and your lowest low, all chopped up and then put into a rusty blender with a dash of humiliation, anger, and hopelessness.
Then imagine the devil himself in a black robe injecting your veins with this toxic cocktail. And if you flinch, you risk losing your kids. That is just the beginning of the nightmare that safe mothers and fathers are facing each and everyday. We go through this life with a forced smile because if we don't smile, we will cry. It might be your coworker, it might be your mailman, my point is, there are so many of us. Nobody was taking us seriously, nobody listened, nobody cared until now. I have been fighting an uphill battle since January 4th, 2024, and I am still fighting today. The support and encouragement of this 3-minute movement is the push I need, it is the antidote that I need after being stuck by the family court needle. My video will be uploaded within 48 hours. Thank you so much Family Court Fraud Warrior Project. I will not stop until Fairfax County VA family court is investigated.
My case is out of Kane County as well. I have proof of child trafficking. I also have proof of a dupage county scandal that was covered up. Rich.. please get ahold of me.
Hello Violet. Welcome welcome. It's amazing how quickly this erupted from one viral-ish article and video I did. You are a wonderful writer. Horrible topic but... hey this is what we are doing here. Dealing with it. What's SO nice is people coming into this group with such spunk 😄. On a POSITIVE footing. Even if still in a sea of shit. I'm going to annoy you with homework 🤨. We have a lot of layers to a lot of deep thinking in this thing. The proverbial 10,000. I want you to have confidence that we are doing things right and I think you can see this place runs on passion. Looking forward to seeing your video. Dave
This man is totally correct. In his analogy on the subject matter. Family Court is a complete failure. I’m sure there’s a good judge or two but 85% of them don’t have their shit together. The misconduct, the malfeasance, and the improprieties are all present. The abuse of power. They forgot what statement of fact means, and that means evidence. That substantiate allegations, accusations,. Paul strophy Lewis county Superior Court, Washington state is one of those judges that is committed crimes against justice. He lives in Olympia Washington from what I understand. He should be ashamed of himself, and he should be incarcerated. The lies in the perjury that I’ve gone on, and that court room that he is presided in. Has been nothing but misconduct fraud.
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https://a.co/d/9Pua5V7
Michigan Family Court @www.judicialcriminal.com
Except Heather Bendl is lying to everyone and $42k in arrears for child support. Claims Ex “raped” her resulting in child #4. Charges filed 4 years later. Really??? Will claim *I* stalk her. No, I tell people the parts she leaves out. Claims abuse on boyfriends when things don’t go her way and tried to have them prosecuted for abuses she commits on herself. Narcissistic, files false tax returns, commits identity theft, a grifter in every sense of the word. Heather’s story is half truths. And yes you can view all records of reported abuse, all 27 of them over the years on IL records and none have ever been prosecuted. Funny how that works.
Her children were taken for neglect and abuse. Left alone while she was out partying and drinking. In addition to being mentally ill.
Wants her kids back so bad she won’t pay to complete requirements of court in IL and FL. Can pay for supervised visits but won’t. She has options. Has money for camera equipment and a new van and this and that but not for the kids she claims to love and will do anything for. Apparently not.
Wow this is some ugly stuff. Certainly not what I created the project for.. except for the transparency part. Now, the truth has to be known here. If there are 27 reports never prosecuted, please provide substantiation. These are series allegations, as someone who has been stalked himself, I do hope this is not another criminal violation against our victims coming forward.
I am working with national legal litigant Tanwah Downing and Jessica Saxton to raise awareness for this national crisis. This is my personal story. Since sharing my story, Ive met more moms with similar stories here in NY. I am trying to get the media involved. We are headed to NYC and D.C., June 6-8. Please let me know how you can be of assistance.
Here is my story.
People need the truth.
BTW: this story has been published worldwide.
That is the only justice I want.
It all started after I left my ex in NY in Broome County and moved back to my hometown in Bradford County Pennsylvania. I reported a childline report for molestation of my daughter and another child. It was never investigated. Instead, the worker targeted me and my children. 6 babies that had never left my side. 6 babies I homeschooled and tried to protect from an abuser who has ties to court systems and a community of police officers, CPS, and DSS, judges, lawyers, and he even went so far to get himself a dv advocate.
Needless to say, a false report was made I shot my son with a bb gun which he later recanted. He was threatened by CYS in Bradford County that he was going to be placed in a pysch ward at 10 years old because he was having "behavior issues."
My kids were placed in kinship with my mom's ex who molested me my entire life. His gf knows what he did. They conspired with my ex. He was given two of my babies who he has completely alienated me from. It's been a year. These babies never left my side. They went to work with me because he wouldn't take a part in helping me. Hes remarried in under a year, and she controls the scenario. She stalks me on tiktok. She uses my advocacy to tell the court I am unstable. She has her friends and family bully me and stalk me.
Fast forward, I moved to Minnesota after Pennsylvania took my kids in hopes to get them back and away from these monsters. I ended up meeting another monster who raped me in my sleep then proceeded to tell TikTok what he did but pose it in a way to make me look like an abuser for defending myself. Needless to say, I ended up pregnant. He threw me out in the middle of winter after paying his back rent, plus the regular rent. He stole all my money, my bank card, and took me to a place knowing a dangerous dog lived there. I was mauled. I lost my job and my car. He made me homeless after promising to help me. His ex who he raped at gunpoint helped me to see who he truly is. She saved my life.
Fast forward : I came back to NY for custody with my ex abuser. I had no support system. They were left in Minnesota.
I had a baby Sept 26, 2024 at Lourdes Guthrie in Johnson City, NY where my current bf stood beside me.
Current case:
A judge, CPS in two counties, and a hospital I reported conspired with my abusive ex to steal my baby. He then used that knowledge to lie to Bradford County court and took my children away. Its been a year without my babies. That same judge who took my rights gave me Abel back. I have court coming up because I refiled with the head judge for my babies back. He never disclosed to the court he has a record, but involved himself in a case that he should not have access to because he isn't the father.
This current case in NY: Tioga County
I wasn't allowed to defend myself. I have proof of corruption, and they are trying to silence me. Now that I refuse to be silenced, they made up more lies. The judge is a part of this, and he ordered my baby into fostercare for 6 more months off a temporary order filed in Oct after I reported a doctor for sexual assault. They falsified my records and the officer I made the report to refused to investigate and lied on the report. Several nurses and doctors are testifying against me. The warrant was not signed and the order was an emergency order for gross behavior or neglect neither of which was true regarding this case. Trial has been set for July 17th. A permanency report full of lies was read yesterday. I provided a 2 page Rebuttal and over 1200 sheets of evidence which was denied. A lawyer for CPS opened my evidence. She saw all the conduct and abuse I reported. Two days before the hearing she denied to except over 28 exhibits. The court waited until that same day to tell me to stop sending discovery that they dont accept discovery for a trial. After a month of sending discovery.
At court yesterday, her first words were, "I do not consent to being recorded."
Now why would you open a permanency hearing with those words if your claim is that you don't feel safe opening evidence via digital files the same way discovery was sent to me? The same evidence that shows recordings of abuse and misconduct and refutes your client's claims. The judge refused my evidence. He set another hearing for six more months. My baby was taken at 5 days old after I reported a doctor. Discovery shows the county I resided in forced the hospital to detain him after being medically cleared.
The staff decided to go against their own advice because Broome County threatened them. They found old records that were later unfounded and used them to say I neglected him. They wrote lies throughout my records, told CPS I barricaded myself, my baby, and my bf in the room after calling 911. I was called all sorts of defamatory labels. Then Broome decided they didn't want the responsibilities so they turned jurisdiction over to Tioga where I did not reside. A county my abuser has ties to. An abuser they were made aware of. They then tried to give my baby to him found in the Permanency hearing report. He isn't the father.
Then my ACP dv address was exposed and then a retaliatory report was made to the county I actually reside. They've cleared me of any of these fallacies. This judge has been reported. These agencies have been reported. I've spoken up, and now my life is in shambles. They are illegally kidnapping my son. It's on paper what they're doing. I have enough evidence. I have been fighting alone for 8 months. They use my advocacy, my dv status, and my report of a doctor to say I am mentally ill and unstable. I have proof of any said mental illnesses not being the case. Still I am losing my baby to evil. I was threatened by the judge for filing motions. It's been brought to his attention that the county, and the court lacks jurisdiction. They still continue on like they're just doing their job. They change court procedures or refuse to tell me their procedures. So I follow the law and I am denied access. If someone doesn't intervene, my baby is gone forever.
Please share!!! It's the only way these evil people are going to be exposed.
Thank you,
Katie Merritt
Hi yes I've spoken to Tawana a few times. Smart guy. I'm glad he's banging down doors and getting needed exposure. We SHOULD do both our projects. No overlap really.
What's your project?
How/where do I upload my three minute testimony video?
Have any of you heard of Tanawah Downing?