Advocates demand answers for protective mother Monica Ciardi’s ongoing detention. Prosecutors face scrutiny over fabricated timelines and missing documents.
Just go to this womans Facebook page and see for yourself what a raving lunatic she is. She is clearly - very clearly - a danger to herself and society. I hope she never gets out.
Well, you know what they say: want to make a sane mother appear insane; take away her children for NO good reason! She has a right to speak out about her injustice! She has a right for due process.
You do NOT have the right to condemn her as a “bad mother” in need of “water boarding” and all the other BS you are spewing!! God help anyone that has stupidly retained you (although i actually doubt that you really are an attorney. If you are, ambulance chaser at best!!)
I see myself as someone standing up against opportunists who prey on others. My story is one of perseverance and devotion to my child.
Initially, I lost primary custody of my daughter to her mother—a woman whose behavior later proved to be deeply unstable. This loss was not due to any failing on my part but because of the systemic bias in family courts, where fathers statistically lose custody battles 95% of the time. For those who think courts are biased against mothers, I’d urge them to take a closer look at the data.
After losing custody, I committed myself to being the best father I could be, focusing entirely on my daughter's well-being. Over time, my daughter began to open up about the abuse she was enduring at the hands of her mother. I fought hard to protect her, and eventually, the court awarded me full custody. Her mother is now permanently barred from contacting us due to a restraining order.
Since coming into my care, my daughter has transformed. She went from being non-verbal and struggling in school to thriving academically—earning a spot on the High Honors list—and growing into a confident and articulate young woman.
Her mother is currently $3,000 behind on child support, but that is not what matters to me. What matters is that my daughter is safe, happy, and flourishing. The system, while deeply flawed and biased against fathers, occasionally works as it should, especially when the facts reveal the truth. However, for a mother to lose custody, it is often an extreme case of negligence or abuse, as it was here.
I’ve seen the worst of the system and the toll it takes, but my daughter’s well-being makes every challenge worth it.
Firstly, I am terribly sorry that this happened to you and it is great to hear that your child is thriving.
However, That is YOUR story!! It does NOT give you the right to condemn this poor woman. To destroy her character.
To refuse to see the smoke here.
I am a victim of severe DV that spanned over 18 years… actually, he’s still at it but via proxy… but guess what?? I still give my support to men equally as I do woman because I know that this is NOT gender biased. I could’ve became a staunch woman’s rights /dv woman only advocate but I know what really goes on and I refuse to be driven by hate and my own experiences. We should NOT be divided. Please stop making baseless statements about this woman. I KNOW how it feels to be persecuted by a family with legal ties. To have my babies ripped from my arms despite his two arrests. I personally KNOW how it feels to be judged by people by a smear campaign. I’ve lost out on THREE childhoods because of it… the children that I SHOULD share with my ex have been deprived of their mother’s love because of things like this…
I know I’ve attacked you for your statements and I appreciate you sharing your , obviously, traumatic journey. I ask that you try and do the same.
Monica has two little children at home that look lost and so very sad. THEY deserve their Mothers love.
Abuse NEVER ends when we leave. I for one can tell you that, 150%
Note the author here does not even have the “journalistic” integrity to post the actual Facebook messages. He calls himself a journalist not me. Also a pre-indictment conference is not usually done except in extreme felony cases. Look at that woman’s eyes. A clear psychopath.
But you didn’t post them here now did you. Only a reference like it’s nothing, it’s a big deal. Roy den Hollander went after a judge not far from this judge killing her son and injuring her husband after killing a lawyer in San Francisco.
You certainly have a LOT to say on every report about this….. I had a judge try to send Trenton detectives to arrest me on NYE after I called out lack of Due process… their excuse??? The same on you are referring to. Did I threaten anyone? Nope! Thankfully, I was blessed with a wonderful detective that did his homework before calling me! And guess what?? He even called me a week later to check I was okay!! There ARE good people out there and I’ll be naming them at the same time that I name the ones that destroyed the lives of the children from my marriage, along with my life! All on lies and covering up!! Beyond amped up in anticipation for your prehistoric, misogynistic, narrow minded comments for when I do finally speak out!!!
You think that Monica is “Clearly a bad Mother”
Again, I hope she sues you for that when she gets out!!
The woman should have thought of the consequences before she broke the law. It’s funny you claim to demand accountability from everyone else but not for this woman. It’s obvious she is mentally ill but that does not justify her being allowed to abuse her kids. Lock her up and throw away the key.
She threatened a judge. In New Jersey. Does Roy Den Hollander ring a bell? I was stuck having to dispose of his ashes. If you threaten a judge you will suffer the consequences.
She posted a threat against the judge on Facebook. She was arrested for many a false puce report accusing the father of being a pedophile. The police had to investigate and ask the kids if their father molested them. If this is not abuse, what is?
A false report is by definition a crime. It is a waste of police. It could lead to an innocent party being arrested and imprisoned. In this case it led to children being traumatized for life. I highly doubt you have kids but if you did, could you imagine strangers interrogating you asking if your father molested you? How much therapy is it going to take for these kids to heal? You think there should be no consequences for someone that made this happen simply to cause harm?
Roy Den Hollander did not murder my attorney, my supervisor and my good friend Marc Angelucci. Marc was assassinated to keep him from testifying about Court corruption in my case on July 9, 2020. That hearing was mysteriously postponed at the last minute to July 14, 2020, just long enough for him to get whacked. The man who ordered the hit was notorious Mafia gangster Joe Yanny.
I knew Marc Angelucci better than anyone, especially in the last year of his life. We were working on multiple cases together, and planning our future together running NCFM. Marc was on the witness list for a July 9, 2020 hearing in Dept. 1 (Hon. Samantha Jessner) at Stanley Mosk, to testify about corruption in case LC068701, particularly the corruption by notorious Mongols Nation lawyer Joe Yanny. The hearing was mysteriously cancelled at the very last minute, and "postponed" to July 14, 2020, no explanation other than "the judge has a meeting." No part of the official story (the cross country train ride, the rented car, 2 hour drive up, 2 hour drive back, cross country train ride back with the murder weapon) - none of it adds up, nor does the motive ("jealousy because Marc got the gig leading the Selective Service lawsuit"). If anything Den Hollander would have been pissed of at Harry Crouch, not Marc. And then, there is the fact the investigators wouldn't talk to me in the two weeks BEFORE the Judge Salas event, even though EVERYBODY told them "talk to Alex." Nobody knew more about the people and the cases Marc and I were working on together than I did. NOBODY. Real investigators could not possibly have been uninterested in what I knew.
1. She violated court orders. 2. Harassed her children’s father. 3. Committed child abuse. Zero evidence of misconduct by authorities who have extensive oversight. Show me any evidence of misconduct other than the words of a mental misfit and her horde of Karens who couldn’t care less about facts or evidence.
Read everything SHE wrote and it’s obvious. Now imagine what she’s not saying. I don’t have the court order. She does. Why doesn’t she show it in the name of transparency? There’s always at least 3 sides to a story. His, hers and mine which is the truth.
Zero proof of any misconduct. This woman should have been water boarded for the rest of her life for what she did. Those poor kids will live with this for the rest of their lives.
Criminal defense. This is what victims are up against in the court system. Her eyes could also be from trauma. Anyone who goes to the court house and report abuse is painted as crazy. Some alligations are false, but several are real.
My comment wasn’t aimed at you. Sorry if it linked to you. I am well aware what the court does to people when you report abuse. Mine was arrested twice, a few nights in jail. I was told to “go home and work on my marriage”
Despite photos of injuries and corroboration from kids, cops and therapist…here I sit 4y and nearly one month since the courts handed them over to my abuser and put me on supervised visits ( nope, didn’t do anything. Just EVERYTHING I was ordered by the courts) because my doctor said two court visits with that judge in five days would traumatize me even further (because he’d allowed me to be berated by my exes lawyer while my OWN questioned me, cursed, screamed at me.. etc etc) judge then said, okay. You don’t have to appear with your lawyer so long as you get me a letter from doc in two hours or he’d throw me in jail for contempt. I got the letter and because I didn’t appear (despite the letter) he said “if she’s not fit to be in my court room, she’s not fit to be unsupervised with 3 of my 4 minors….. go figure…… they had been with me for two years of proceedings by this point.
my ex then withheld them constantly, filed false police reports (that I had NO idea about as cops “knew” him by then so they didn’t bother me” )which his then attorney used these and me asking cops for help with the constant withholding, to file and emergent motion. I was told to let the kids have a two week “breather” from all the chaos but they could call me whenever they wanted. When I went back after two weeks to get them back, my judge denied that was what the date was for, REFUSED to discuss it. Muted me and then started a trial….. after we had already agreed to everything in an MSA. Judge also changed my divorce from cruelty to irreconcilable differences and when I pointed it out (as I caught on with his questions) he screamed at me again and said we’d have to start all over again , it would take forever and I would’ve lost my job. I was so scared, I let him do it. Then he gave my abuser SOLE custody legal and residential……. I couldn’t make this up if I tried…. There’s more to it. So much more that was done to me and is still being done post divorce . The abuse never ends. I had to stop counting the days at 1,809 as I am slowly dying inside 💔
My ex has now managed to erase their memories of seeing me abused. Alienated them AND some of my own family… these people that haven’t lived it, have no clue. I am sure I looked bat sh!t crazy begging the judges to make him let me have my visitation and other things… I know that poor Woman is at the mercy of corruption. I just know it and my heart breaks for her.
Police allowed to arrest people on probable cause. And plenty probable cause here. Also a case for a psych hold. Don’t know if you have kids or able to but if you did, how would you feel if your ex called CPS and police saying you were sexually abusing your children and they had to ask these little children if you did? And you know damn well this will scar them for LIFE. When they are in their 40s they will be discussing this “fun” little joke that the mother did to them. This is so common in courts and judges deal with this every single day. And almost always it’s the mother. I have exposed lie upon lie on your pages many times.
I think you are the one that is jaded. You assume all these whack jobs are telling the truth despite the obvious insistences. And the eyes man. Look at the eyes. All of them.
Not everyone is a a whack job. I'm not sure if you are aware of the modernization project. It's related to the welfare reform. Responsible fatherhood. This case is not in Connecticut. However Connecticut is the leader and first to enact legislation. Evidence is often ignored in family court system. Lack of evidence is false reporting. Good people are accused of things. Bad people are getting away with things. This is the reason journalist are looking at family court cases. From the public perspective alot of things involving children are under the cover of darkness. Child protective services gives grants for the modernization project. Predatory parents are being given access to children. A very large non profit organization and private funding has entered the family court system. With little public knowledge. Self survey and research funding. The research is directed at creating a narrative that abuse claims are false. Far less unbiased research has been done on true claims. Safety plans with DCF are made for abusive parents. Not knowing to the public. Lack of transparency and private organization receiving funding for 503c nonprofit are mudding up the court system. A lack of transparency and information involving the lives of children is a growing concern. Once you understand the funding involved in family law you begin to question. Statistics to drive more funding to a large organization leads to the motive involved in family court. . Child protective services and the criminal justice system are all tied up in it. So perhaps you may understand why the public is concerned and did trust the people running the court house. The legal industry supportive it.
So you’re an attorney and a doctor now??? Your comments are aiding the injustice that is daily in NJ ( and I’m sure, every other state) family court! I lost custody of my FOUR CHILDREN via family court to a TWICE arrested abuser…… and I didn’t even have a parking ticket…… for where I lived at the time ( Montclair) , THAT was something that was even hard for a “faker” to hide!!!
Take off your clysdale blinders and see abuse for what it is: woven into every single daily action. Hidden in every task. Shrouded by every family tie. Clouded by every suspicion. The truth only comes out after we are dead. And THAT is SO very sad. So sad! I pray that my kids can forgive themselves for believing the BS that you obviously believe…. You have no excuse…. They had it shoved down their throats!!
I will not give up. I will expose this BS and people like you need to STEP BACK!! You have NO idea what you are talking about! You’ve definitely NOT lived it, like I still am!!! Stay tuned….. I’ll be speaking out more VERY soon… it will all make sense then… maybe… if you open that closed mind just a little…. 🤷♀️
You had him falsely arrested twice and that why you lost custody. The kids see you are a whack job and want nothing to do with you. These kids do not have to forgive themselves for seeing the truth. It is sick even to say that. I hope the court permanently commits you to a mental institute where you belong. You are among the worst child abusers in history.
Falsely arrested??? I had injuries both times and the kids witnessed it! So above your comment where the sun doesn’t shine!
I had some empathy after reading what you allegedly went through.. not anymore! You’ve probably alienated you child from her mother. A bad parent deprives children from the love of both parents! I had a motion filed to make him utilise his visitation before it went sideways!! He never showed up! HE was on supervised visits and then his pal “therapist “ lied and said he’d completed his anger management ! I tried to do the right things hing! Ensure they didn’t lose contact with their father…. He turned that around and has no doubt mentally destroyed them!!
He got himself arrested for abusing me! And if he didn’t want me to talk about it, he shouldn’t have done all he has done because I am not shutting up!!
“I” got himself arrested 🙄 you sound JUST like him !
He did spend two nights in jail… YOU have zero understanding of the family court system and I am REALLY starting to suspect that you are him or his sidekick that is currently abusing me via proxy for him.
You have ZERO idea how family court, money ties, corruption among judges, lawyers & “experts” works!
Again, if you ARE an attorney, as you claim, I suggest you get your ignorant backside into summer school for basic 101 law, along with the courses that are being mandated to judges on better understanding of DV, especially coercive control and DARVO!
I bet you’d get financial aid based on your complete and UTTER ignorance on the matter!! It’s people like you that absolutely need educating.
You most certainly use the “ destroy character without facts” tactic as your first weapon in your arsenal…. I’d put money on it!
You have NO basis for your claims on myself or Monica.
I feel absolutely sympathy for the daughter that you have destroyed from her mother!
73% of woman that expose abuse when trying to escape either lose custody, 50/50, but more so, complete custody.
BEFORE you spout off more narrow minded rhetoric, do some research! And maybe go to therapy! 🙄
I do NOT need to defend myself to you any longer. But thank you for the extra evidence on just HOW misunderstood, or refusal to understand, this problem is with certain people! Like YOU!
I hope that your day is better than your attitude!
Me? Aggressive?? Have you read his responses? I’m standing up for what I believe in ! 1st amendment?? Where as slander, libel and defamation are criminal charges…. Not sure if he’s okay…. If you do not have anything constructive to add here, I kindly suggest you keep your passive aggressive comments to yourself… Cheerio!! 👋
This woman manipulates dozens of hurting people with that lie against me, too. Worse: she instructs them “don’t tell her what I actually am of accusing her of” and every one of these Facebook warriors listens.
I can’t even deny whatever malicious, untrue, deliberate slander Monica Ciardi spews because she instructs these women to harass me in this specific way—- tell everyone I “get money” from her poor ex she also lies about, but never, ever just say it straight out.
It’s horrible. My baby has to see her mother so beaten down; I try so hard to hide it from her, but I know sometimes I fail. All because Monica Ciardi can conduct a campaign of lies & harassment from inside a jail cell.
Her ex has never been charged with any “federal gun crime,” and that photo is from a security camera Monica had plenty of money to pay lawyers to subpoena— for yet another one of her lawsuits. She never tells her followers that she sues everyone she possibly can and she always has money for those retainers, and she knows that horrible photo with which she has slandered the father of her children is a lie.
Family court profit by labeling parents. "CRAZY" is a general term that encourages funding for profit with assistance of trafficking by the courts
Just go to this womans Facebook page and see for yourself what a raving lunatic she is. She is clearly - very clearly - a danger to herself and society. I hope she never gets out.
Well, you know what they say: want to make a sane mother appear insane; take away her children for NO good reason! She has a right to speak out about her injustice! She has a right for due process.
You do NOT have the right to condemn her as a “bad mother” in need of “water boarding” and all the other BS you are spewing!! God help anyone that has stupidly retained you (although i actually doubt that you really are an attorney. If you are, ambulance chaser at best!!)
I see myself as someone standing up against opportunists who prey on others. My story is one of perseverance and devotion to my child.
Initially, I lost primary custody of my daughter to her mother—a woman whose behavior later proved to be deeply unstable. This loss was not due to any failing on my part but because of the systemic bias in family courts, where fathers statistically lose custody battles 95% of the time. For those who think courts are biased against mothers, I’d urge them to take a closer look at the data.
After losing custody, I committed myself to being the best father I could be, focusing entirely on my daughter's well-being. Over time, my daughter began to open up about the abuse she was enduring at the hands of her mother. I fought hard to protect her, and eventually, the court awarded me full custody. Her mother is now permanently barred from contacting us due to a restraining order.
Since coming into my care, my daughter has transformed. She went from being non-verbal and struggling in school to thriving academically—earning a spot on the High Honors list—and growing into a confident and articulate young woman.
Her mother is currently $3,000 behind on child support, but that is not what matters to me. What matters is that my daughter is safe, happy, and flourishing. The system, while deeply flawed and biased against fathers, occasionally works as it should, especially when the facts reveal the truth. However, for a mother to lose custody, it is often an extreme case of negligence or abuse, as it was here.
I’ve seen the worst of the system and the toll it takes, but my daughter’s well-being makes every challenge worth it.
Firstly, I am terribly sorry that this happened to you and it is great to hear that your child is thriving.
However, That is YOUR story!! It does NOT give you the right to condemn this poor woman. To destroy her character.
To refuse to see the smoke here.
I am a victim of severe DV that spanned over 18 years… actually, he’s still at it but via proxy… but guess what?? I still give my support to men equally as I do woman because I know that this is NOT gender biased. I could’ve became a staunch woman’s rights /dv woman only advocate but I know what really goes on and I refuse to be driven by hate and my own experiences. We should NOT be divided. Please stop making baseless statements about this woman. I KNOW how it feels to be persecuted by a family with legal ties. To have my babies ripped from my arms despite his two arrests. I personally KNOW how it feels to be judged by people by a smear campaign. I’ve lost out on THREE childhoods because of it… the children that I SHOULD share with my ex have been deprived of their mother’s love because of things like this…
I know I’ve attacked you for your statements and I appreciate you sharing your , obviously, traumatic journey. I ask that you try and do the same.
Monica has two little children at home that look lost and so very sad. THEY deserve their Mothers love.
Abuse NEVER ends when we leave. I for one can tell you that, 150%
I can tell she’s the abuser here.
She not. Please try to at least refrain from accusations here on out.
I acknowledged your journey. At least attempt to see both sides. Please.
Note the author here does not even have the “journalistic” integrity to post the actual Facebook messages. He calls himself a journalist not me. Also a pre-indictment conference is not usually done except in extreme felony cases. Look at that woman’s eyes. A clear psychopath.
I posted them AND linked to other outlets' fuller discussions from last January in prior articles. Dude, I can't help your dinosaur brain.
But you didn’t post them here now did you. Only a reference like it’s nothing, it’s a big deal. Roy den Hollander went after a judge not far from this judge killing her son and injuring her husband after killing a lawyer in San Francisco.
You certainly have a LOT to say on every report about this….. I had a judge try to send Trenton detectives to arrest me on NYE after I called out lack of Due process… their excuse??? The same on you are referring to. Did I threaten anyone? Nope! Thankfully, I was blessed with a wonderful detective that did his homework before calling me! And guess what?? He even called me a week later to check I was okay!! There ARE good people out there and I’ll be naming them at the same time that I name the ones that destroyed the lives of the children from my marriage, along with my life! All on lies and covering up!! Beyond amped up in anticipation for your prehistoric, misogynistic, narrow minded comments for when I do finally speak out!!!
You think that Monica is “Clearly a bad Mother”
Again, I hope she sues you for that when she gets out!!
No. I discussed them in the video. Did you watch that?
I want her to sue that Patrick “guy”’not you! I know you are on her side.
So we are diagnosing people based on their eyes?
Well said!! 👏
Hell yes
Great “attorney “ you must be!! Screw irrefutable evidence etc… you just look at them!! Wow, where did you go to law school? Mar-a-lago??
The woman should have thought of the consequences before she broke the law. It’s funny you claim to demand accountability from everyone else but not for this woman. It’s obvious she is mentally ill but that does not justify her being allowed to abuse her kids. Lock her up and throw away the key.
What law did she break again? She forgot to put quotation marks on Facebook. Are you serious?
Please pm me. I’ve reached out to Mr Lutheran too. I have info for you that could help.
She threatened a judge. In New Jersey. Does Roy Den Hollander ring a bell? I was stuck having to dispose of his ashes. If you threaten a judge you will suffer the consequences.
I'm confused by how she threatened a judge. Also, you said she committed child abuse and harassed her ex-husband. How did she do those things?
She posted a threat against the judge on Facebook. She was arrested for many a false puce report accusing the father of being a pedophile. The police had to investigate and ask the kids if their father molested them. If this is not abuse, what is?
That's not necessarily a false report. Are you saying anyone who files a report which leads to no charges should themselves be charged?
A false report is by definition a crime. It is a waste of police. It could lead to an innocent party being arrested and imprisoned. In this case it led to children being traumatized for life. I highly doubt you have kids but if you did, could you imagine strangers interrogating you asking if your father molested you? How much therapy is it going to take for these kids to heal? You think there should be no consequences for someone that made this happen simply to cause harm?
Roy Den Hollander did not murder my attorney, my supervisor and my good friend Marc Angelucci. Marc was assassinated to keep him from testifying about Court corruption in my case on July 9, 2020. That hearing was mysteriously postponed at the last minute to July 14, 2020, just long enough for him to get whacked. The man who ordered the hit was notorious Mafia gangster Joe Yanny.
I knew Marc Angelucci better than anyone, especially in the last year of his life. We were working on multiple cases together, and planning our future together running NCFM. Marc was on the witness list for a July 9, 2020 hearing in Dept. 1 (Hon. Samantha Jessner) at Stanley Mosk, to testify about corruption in case LC068701, particularly the corruption by notorious Mongols Nation lawyer Joe Yanny. The hearing was mysteriously cancelled at the very last minute, and "postponed" to July 14, 2020, no explanation other than "the judge has a meeting." No part of the official story (the cross country train ride, the rented car, 2 hour drive up, 2 hour drive back, cross country train ride back with the murder weapon) - none of it adds up, nor does the motive ("jealousy because Marc got the gig leading the Selective Service lawsuit"). If anything Den Hollander would have been pissed of at Harry Crouch, not Marc. And then, there is the fact the investigators wouldn't talk to me in the two weeks BEFORE the Judge Salas event, even though EVERYBODY told them "talk to Alex." Nobody knew more about the people and the cases Marc and I were working on together than I did. NOBODY. Real investigators could not possibly have been uninterested in what I knew.
1. She violated court orders. 2. Harassed her children’s father. 3. Committed child abuse. Zero evidence of misconduct by authorities who have extensive oversight. Show me any evidence of misconduct other than the words of a mental misfit and her horde of Karens who couldn’t care less about facts or evidence.
What court orders did she violate and how did she harass her children's father? How did she commit child abuse?
Read everything SHE wrote and it’s obvious. Now imagine what she’s not saying. I don’t have the court order. She does. Why doesn’t she show it in the name of transparency? There’s always at least 3 sides to a story. His, hers and mine which is the truth.
Patrick, assume everything you say is correct. It's immaterial. No conduct by the defendant justifies governmental misconduct.
Zero proof of any misconduct. This woman should have been water boarded for the rest of her life for what she did. Those poor kids will live with this for the rest of their lives.
I think the fact that 1/27/2025 was her disposition day, AND we don't have an indictment or any reason why she's still detained, is PRIMA FACIE.
Just wondering so we can get a better picture. Who are you? Involved in the case? Attorney? Psychologist? Trying to follow along.
Attorney.
OMG!!! You “clearly” need help!! Your comments are concerning to the point of, I worry for her safety from you too!
Criminal defense. This is what victims are up against in the court system. Her eyes could also be from trauma. Anyone who goes to the court house and report abuse is painted as crazy. Some alligations are false, but several are real.
My comment wasn’t aimed at you. Sorry if it linked to you. I am well aware what the court does to people when you report abuse. Mine was arrested twice, a few nights in jail. I was told to “go home and work on my marriage”
Despite photos of injuries and corroboration from kids, cops and therapist…here I sit 4y and nearly one month since the courts handed them over to my abuser and put me on supervised visits ( nope, didn’t do anything. Just EVERYTHING I was ordered by the courts) because my doctor said two court visits with that judge in five days would traumatize me even further (because he’d allowed me to be berated by my exes lawyer while my OWN questioned me, cursed, screamed at me.. etc etc) judge then said, okay. You don’t have to appear with your lawyer so long as you get me a letter from doc in two hours or he’d throw me in jail for contempt. I got the letter and because I didn’t appear (despite the letter) he said “if she’s not fit to be in my court room, she’s not fit to be unsupervised with 3 of my 4 minors….. go figure…… they had been with me for two years of proceedings by this point.
my ex then withheld them constantly, filed false police reports (that I had NO idea about as cops “knew” him by then so they didn’t bother me” )which his then attorney used these and me asking cops for help with the constant withholding, to file and emergent motion. I was told to let the kids have a two week “breather” from all the chaos but they could call me whenever they wanted. When I went back after two weeks to get them back, my judge denied that was what the date was for, REFUSED to discuss it. Muted me and then started a trial….. after we had already agreed to everything in an MSA. Judge also changed my divorce from cruelty to irreconcilable differences and when I pointed it out (as I caught on with his questions) he screamed at me again and said we’d have to start all over again , it would take forever and I would’ve lost my job. I was so scared, I let him do it. Then he gave my abuser SOLE custody legal and residential……. I couldn’t make this up if I tried…. There’s more to it. So much more that was done to me and is still being done post divorce . The abuse never ends. I had to stop counting the days at 1,809 as I am slowly dying inside 💔
My ex has now managed to erase their memories of seeing me abused. Alienated them AND some of my own family… these people that haven’t lived it, have no clue. I am sure I looked bat sh!t crazy begging the judges to make him let me have my visitation and other things… I know that poor Woman is at the mercy of corruption. I just know it and my heart breaks for her.
It has to end. This corruption has to end!
Police allowed to arrest people on probable cause. And plenty probable cause here. Also a case for a psych hold. Don’t know if you have kids or able to but if you did, how would you feel if your ex called CPS and police saying you were sexually abusing your children and they had to ask these little children if you did? And you know damn well this will scar them for LIFE. When they are in their 40s they will be discussing this “fun” little joke that the mother did to them. This is so common in courts and judges deal with this every single day. And almost always it’s the mother. I have exposed lie upon lie on your pages many times.
Great. Where is the paperwork? The lies are from the NJ authorities.
I respect that you have the right to your opinions, but they are all jaded. Why?
Did you foil the records? Pretty easy to do.
In process. Mendham wants 30 days.
I think you are the one that is jaded. You assume all these whack jobs are telling the truth despite the obvious insistences. And the eyes man. Look at the eyes. All of them.
Not everyone is a a whack job. I'm not sure if you are aware of the modernization project. It's related to the welfare reform. Responsible fatherhood. This case is not in Connecticut. However Connecticut is the leader and first to enact legislation. Evidence is often ignored in family court system. Lack of evidence is false reporting. Good people are accused of things. Bad people are getting away with things. This is the reason journalist are looking at family court cases. From the public perspective alot of things involving children are under the cover of darkness. Child protective services gives grants for the modernization project. Predatory parents are being given access to children. A very large non profit organization and private funding has entered the family court system. With little public knowledge. Self survey and research funding. The research is directed at creating a narrative that abuse claims are false. Far less unbiased research has been done on true claims. Safety plans with DCF are made for abusive parents. Not knowing to the public. Lack of transparency and private organization receiving funding for 503c nonprofit are mudding up the court system. A lack of transparency and information involving the lives of children is a growing concern. Once you understand the funding involved in family law you begin to question. Statistics to drive more funding to a large organization leads to the motive involved in family court. . Child protective services and the criminal justice system are all tied up in it. So perhaps you may understand why the public is concerned and did trust the people running the court house. The legal industry supportive it.
So you’re an attorney and a doctor now??? Your comments are aiding the injustice that is daily in NJ ( and I’m sure, every other state) family court! I lost custody of my FOUR CHILDREN via family court to a TWICE arrested abuser…… and I didn’t even have a parking ticket…… for where I lived at the time ( Montclair) , THAT was something that was even hard for a “faker” to hide!!!
Take off your clysdale blinders and see abuse for what it is: woven into every single daily action. Hidden in every task. Shrouded by every family tie. Clouded by every suspicion. The truth only comes out after we are dead. And THAT is SO very sad. So sad! I pray that my kids can forgive themselves for believing the BS that you obviously believe…. You have no excuse…. They had it shoved down their throats!!
I will not give up. I will expose this BS and people like you need to STEP BACK!! You have NO idea what you are talking about! You’ve definitely NOT lived it, like I still am!!! Stay tuned….. I’ll be speaking out more VERY soon… it will all make sense then… maybe… if you open that closed mind just a little…. 🤷♀️
You had him falsely arrested twice and that why you lost custody. The kids see you are a whack job and want nothing to do with you. These kids do not have to forgive themselves for seeing the truth. It is sick even to say that. I hope the court permanently commits you to a mental institute where you belong. You are among the worst child abusers in history.
Falsely arrested??? I had injuries both times and the kids witnessed it! So above your comment where the sun doesn’t shine!
I had some empathy after reading what you allegedly went through.. not anymore! You’ve probably alienated you child from her mother. A bad parent deprives children from the love of both parents! I had a motion filed to make him utilise his visitation before it went sideways!! He never showed up! HE was on supervised visits and then his pal “therapist “ lied and said he’d completed his anger management ! I tried to do the right things hing! Ensure they didn’t lose contact with their father…. He turned that around and has no doubt mentally destroyed them!!
He got himself arrested for abusing me! And if he didn’t want me to talk about it, he shouldn’t have done all he has done because I am not shutting up!!
“I” got himself arrested 🙄 you sound JUST like him !
If anything you said was true, he would be in jail, and you would have custody not the other way around. These are the facts.
He did spend two nights in jail… YOU have zero understanding of the family court system and I am REALLY starting to suspect that you are him or his sidekick that is currently abusing me via proxy for him.
You have ZERO idea how family court, money ties, corruption among judges, lawyers & “experts” works!
Again, if you ARE an attorney, as you claim, I suggest you get your ignorant backside into summer school for basic 101 law, along with the courses that are being mandated to judges on better understanding of DV, especially coercive control and DARVO!
I bet you’d get financial aid based on your complete and UTTER ignorance on the matter!! It’s people like you that absolutely need educating.
You most certainly use the “ destroy character without facts” tactic as your first weapon in your arsenal…. I’d put money on it!
You have NO basis for your claims on myself or Monica.
I feel absolutely sympathy for the daughter that you have destroyed from her mother!
73% of woman that expose abuse when trying to escape either lose custody, 50/50, but more so, complete custody.
BEFORE you spout off more narrow minded rhetoric, do some research! And maybe go to therapy! 🙄
I do NOT need to defend myself to you any longer. But thank you for the extra evidence on just HOW misunderstood, or refusal to understand, this problem is with certain people! Like YOU!
I hope that your day is better than your attitude!
Cheerio
You seem extremely aggressive. Are you ok?
Me? Aggressive?? Have you read his responses? I’m standing up for what I believe in ! 1st amendment?? Where as slander, libel and defamation are criminal charges…. Not sure if he’s okay…. If you do not have anything constructive to add here, I kindly suggest you keep your passive aggressive comments to yourself… Cheerio!! 👋
Not sure what they comment looked towards you. Sorry about that
Look at this psychopaths Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/mlynnweis
https://open.substack.com/pub/amywithaidileys
This woman manipulates dozens of hurting people with that lie against me, too. Worse: she instructs them “don’t tell her what I actually am of accusing her of” and every one of these Facebook warriors listens.
I can’t even deny whatever malicious, untrue, deliberate slander Monica Ciardi spews because she instructs these women to harass me in this specific way—- tell everyone I “get money” from her poor ex she also lies about, but never, ever just say it straight out.
It’s horrible. My baby has to see her mother so beaten down; I try so hard to hide it from her, but I know sometimes I fail. All because Monica Ciardi can conduct a campaign of lies & harassment from inside a jail cell.
Her ex has never been charged with any “federal gun crime,” and that photo is from a security camera Monica had plenty of money to pay lawyers to subpoena— for yet another one of her lawsuits. She never tells her followers that she sues everyone she possibly can and she always has money for those retainers, and she knows that horrible photo with which she has slandered the father of her children is a lie.