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Karen Riordan's avatar

Thank you for your continued coverage on the realities of family court and the resulting trauma inflicted upon our children.

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Lisa’s Alternate Reality's avatar

New Jersey does not care. They never did. I have lived here more than half my life. I have been abused, the police don’t care nor try to protect the children or women. The police are extremely forceful and can be dangerous at times.

I was broken into my home on Christmas Eve 2008. I was a personal trainer and I just completed a self defense class. Thank you, God. Who knew?

He came in through kitchen window, leaving prints in my sink and on my patio, which I am still taken aback, as you couldn’t see the window from the street, so I assume it had to be one of the people living around me. I used reverse psychology and beat the crap out of him. It was a hour and a half of this.

I am writing about my survival stories and this is next. It’s just hard emotionally. I was tired, he broke in at 2:19 am, close to 4 am when I had to give up. He punched me in the temple and I fell over he kicked me so hard, it bruised a kidney. He did not rape or kill me, as I am still here. He was masked with cheesecloth and duct tape over his mouth and fingers, knew what he was doing, had twisty ties, rope and sissors. He stepped on me and went out the front door. I got my cell and called the police, as I went after him. All 25 police officers from Union Beach were at my house within 5 mins. No car sped away, as they said, and they could not “find” him. They did not believe me and I fought with the police. I spoke with single women living in UB, and found out the description of the man, had 8 rapes under his belt. The police did nothing.

I then, was in car accident in 2010. It debilitated me, hip dislocation, knees destroyed. I was as waiting for replacement surgeries.

In 2013, after Hurricane Sandy, my friend of 4 years, asked me to stay with him. He raped me a week before my first replacement. I had my dog, an Akita who stood barking and growling, hitting his bedroom door. I went into my room got a recorder, put it in my pants, told Bear to knock the door down, he did and corner Bob. I yelled, “say what you did”, over and over until he confessed. I pulled recorder out and said, I got you m’fer! He jumped out the window, being afraid of my dog. The police came. The first thing out of their mouths was do you have proof? I handed them the recorder. They listened. Said ok we “NOW BELIEVE YOU.” They called an ambulance, and started looking for him. They found him at a strip bar. Needless to say, I had to go in for my knee replacement, the prosecutor brought me in and asked what I wanted done. I said jail. You know, he tried to convince me not to press that charge, but community service and no internet. I said no way. I had proof. I got the paperwork and they sent him to jail for 2 weeks, community service, I think 200 hours and no social media. He moved, I found him on social media a month ago. NEW JERSEY IS A LEADING HUMAN TRAFFICKING STATE. DO NOT BE MIS LED. MURPHY IS THE WORST. HE DOES’NT CARE. AND I AM NOT SURPRISED, HE IS A DUMB DOWN DEM. THERE IS ALOT OF THIS GOING ON IN THIS STATE. I HAD A FEW ARGUMENTS WITH THE AG, whom stood up for his men. I HATE NJ.

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